I Don’t Care
Apathy.
n.
- Lack of interest or concern, especially regarding matters of general importance or appeal; indifference.
- Lack of emotion or feeling; impassiveness.
[Latin apathīa, from Greek apatheia, from apathēs, without feeling : a-, without; + pathos, feeling.]
That would exactly describe the modern Christian feeling towards the least. Yes, there are people who do reach out and adopt an orphan. There are a few who take widows under their wing and support them in the most difficult time of life. A mere handful will seek out the abused mothers and counsel them. But usually, most of us don’t even think about how these people feel- or even consider where they might be and if they exist. We’ve been conditioned to think WE are the most worthy of attention. WE need to be numero uno. Oh really?
Imagine you are a Christian in Nazi Germany. The Nazis, for the most part, leave you alone. The most they have done to you is tease, and you don’t expect anymore than that. The poor Jews, however, have much more to fear. Just as long as it isn’t you.
One Sunday, you decide to meet in the church: which is now, by the way, decorated with the red flags of the Third Reich. A small amount of people show up, and the preaching begins. The pastor begins a watered-down version of the gospel, so not to annoy any spies that may be among you, and you settle down to listen.
Faintly, in the distance, you hear trucks coming. This has happened before: everyone knows the routine by now.
“Take your song-books and sing number 46!” shouts the pastor. Scrambling, you reach for the book and begin to sing.
“I stand amazed in the presence of Jesus the Nazarene…”
You hear the screams and shouts from the trucks passing by: filled with Jews on their way to concentration camp. You want to shut out their screams- so you begin to yell out the lyrics louder.
“Louder!” The pastor yells. “Louder!”
Finally, a few minutes later, the trucks have rumbled by, and the singing is over.
That is exactly what happens in churches today.
Maybe we don’t have Nazis bearing down on our Jewish neighbors. Perhaps we don’t have to sing a song really loud to drown out someone’s screams. But we are, in a sense, drowning out the cries for help around us.
How am I doing that?
We are too self-centered. We ignore the homeless guy sitting in front of Wal Mart and head to the ice cream stand. We look away when we see a mother struggling to help her family survive after the death of her husband. We judge others by their appearances. We act like we don’t care, then we get so used to acting, it just becomes normal. We really don’t care anymore. We don’t care about not caring.
The Problem of Missions Trips
The church is often littered with the trash of modern psychology. It’s all about you, and you have to do good things. Honestly, I think that mission trips are not really missions work. Pastors label these “ministry.” It’s a chance for people to see the world and ease their conscience at the same time. The poorest people in America would be rich in other parts of the world! When Americans arrive with their fancy blow-dryers, expensize luggage, and Bible-zines, how do you think the nationals feel? If you really cared about these people: take out your comforts and replace them with Bibles in the country’s language. (Do you really think that people in the heart of Mexico will care whether or not you have mascara on?) If you share the gospel, that’s awesome, just be sensitive! But mission trips to non-English speaking countries bug me! Of course, we need to help out our fellow man: that much is clear: but spiritual should come before physical needs. Painting a church isn’t exactly what I would call “spiritual.” The church is a building to meet in, and is simply a shell that holds believers: like a person’s body houses the Holy Spirit. If you can’t really share the gospel face to face- or with a translator: don’t go. Don’t go to meet only the physical. That’s not missions.
True missions is sacrifice. I believe there are two ways to do missions: a wrong way and a right way (whoa, that took a rocket scientist)! Missions trips will be very effective for you if you do it the right way! I’m not condemning missions trips altogether, there are some types that are very effective. I would like to go on one myself sometime. I’m just warning you to check your motives.
The wrong way~
Are you going to see more of the world?
Are going so that you can say you’ve been to “such and such” a place?
Are you going with all of your comforts in tow? (Ipods, video games, and excessive beauty supplies?)
If you said yes to any of these: you are apathetic towards others and need to work on changing your heart before you go.
The right way:
Are going out of true love for others?
Are you praying for these people before you head out?
Do you feel like you could be called into full time missions eventually?
If you answered yes to one or more questions, you seem to have the right motives.
Christian missions is in a sad state. It’s all about us in America- and to my international readers, maybe you can relate- perhaps you have seen apathetic Christians, too! The only way to change that is by doing something different. Overcoming apathy. I believe the real root of apathy is self-centeredness.
Be sure to read the previous “In The Right Direction” posts so you can get the full effect.